DON’T: Be too flashy

　　DON’T: Be too flashy

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　　Equally, while people do like pictures of fast cars (if you’re fortunate enough to own one), no one appreciates a boaster. The incomparably crass Dan Bilzerian posts daily updates of his guns, hundred-dollar bills and naked porn stars, and has for some reason raked in millions of followers. But if you want to be thought of as a true gentleman, photos of champagne and fancy parties aren’t going to impress anyone. If you’ve got enviable seats at a sporting event, that’s different. But be subtle, be gracious and remember that old biblical adage: “Let another man praise you, not your own mouth.”

　　同样地，虽然人们喜欢看豪车的照片(如果你够幸运拥有一台自己的豪车)，但是没人喜欢自吹自擂的人。无比愚蠢的丹·比尔泽恩天天在Instagram上炫富，晒枪，还有色情女星的裸照。但如果你想让别人认为你是正人君子的话，晒香槟，晒豪趴是不会得到别人认可的。措辞要谨慎得体，记住这样的老话：他人的赞赏才是赞赏，自己的只能是自夸。

　　Do it like: Richard Branson (@richardbranson, 263k followers). He’s one of the richest men in the world, but does he show it off?

　　比如这样：理查德·布兰森(@ richardbranson，263,000粉丝)世界上最富有的人之一，可他炫富吗?