16、女人想要的往往不是真相，而是她们想要的真相

　　What women really want is not truth, but the truth they like.

　　17、人生很吊诡的那个地方在于:

　　你往往很动心的那个时刻，

　　都是在你还没准备好的时候遇到。

　　当你准备好一切却很难找回当初动心的那个瞬间了。

　　The paradox in life is that

　　most of time,

　　when you have a crush on someone, you are not ready;

　　when you get ready, you can hardly find the moment that once took your breath away.

　　18、选择我爱的人是给自己制造伤口，

　　选择爱我的人是给自己一副盔甲。

　　To choose a man I love is to create wounds for myself;

　　to choose a man who loves me is to give myself a suit of armor.

　　19、当你没有上进心的时候

　　你是在杀人

　　你不小心，杀了自己的人生

　　When you entertain no ambition,

　　You are killing yourself,

　　You accidentally kill your own life.

　　20、“撑过去”是一种祝福和鼓励，

　　可是对于绝症病人来说，“撑下去”，真的是一种诅咒。

　　Normally, hanging on is a kind of blessing and encouragement.

　　But for terminally ill patients, hanging on is really a curse.

　　21、第一等智慧的人都是自相矛盾的，

　　两个原则没有任何一个是对的，

　　只有在具体的时间和地点，

　　做出的唯一正好的判断，才是对的。

　　—中庸，是恰到好处

　　People with first-class wisdom are all paradoxical.

　　Neither of the two principles is right.

　　The only rightness is to make the correct judgement,

　　at the specific time and place.

　　Moderation is all about to the point.

　　22、奋斗不一定成功，

　　但是不奋斗真的好舒服。

　　Striving doesn’t necessarily lead to success,

　　but giving up struggling is really comfortable.

　　23、　如果你没有前几年坚持的能力，

　　你就没有后几年选择的权利。

　　If you don’t have the capacity to hang on in the first few years,

　　you are not entitled with the rights for free choice in your latter years.

　　24、任何被世界玩弄的人，

　　都表现的玩世不恭。

　　Those fooled by the world always look cynical at the first sight.

　　25、靠谱的事情只是在模仿，

　　不靠谱的才能打上自己的烙印。

　　Reliable stuff are nothing but imitation.

　　Only those unreliable are branded with unique marks.

　　26、美好的东西都会掺杂虚伪的成分。

　　比如小说是虚构的，

　　食物是加了作料才好美味的。

　　真实很冰冷，艺术需加工。

　　任何一样东西若是完完整整地呈现出来，

　　那样东西会很乏味，也很冰冷。

　　但如果经过我们加入虚拟的、虚幻元素过后，

　　那它就会变成美好的。

　　虚伪创造美。

　　All the beauty is mingled with hypocrisy.

　　For example, interesting novels are fictional.

　　Delicious food are seasoned.

　　Truth is cold. Art needs embellishment.

　　Everything, if undecorated, is very boring.

　　But after we add some artificial, visionary elements,

　　they become gorgeous. Hypocrisy creates beauty.

　　27、这么多年虚心纳谏的领导我是没见到过，虚心纳妾的到不少。

　　For the most time of my life, I have barely seen leaders humbly taking advice,

　　but known many leaders taking concubines.

　　28、什么车需要备胎，破车，

　　什么人需要备选，烂人。

　　What kind of cars need spare tire? A broken car.

　　What kind of people need a candidate lover? A loser.

　　29、动物之间所有的亲情都靠血缘，

　　而人类之间的亲情，还有可能是，恩义。

　　In the animal world, family ties are bonded by blood;

　　but for human beings, besides that, there is spiritual gratitude.

　　30、用自己的故事，去改变别人的人生，

　　好容易导致别人的故事写错。

　　Using you own stories to change others' life may easily lead to

　　mistakes in other people's life story.